Marathon
This March is a marathon, and it’s only just begun. I’m trying hard to pace myself. To stay hydrated. To keep my head in the game. I’m trying ...
Author: noemikjames
In the Weeds
I wanted to thank everyone who left such supportive, and insightful, comments on my post last week. You were, of course, right that sending that letter would ha...
Part of the problem?
I’m thinking of sending this out to the listserv of all the PTA presidents in San Francisco, but I wanted to get your take on it first. My readers always ...
Titles are hard
Thank you all for making me feel less alone after yesterday’s post. I found myself nodding my head at each comment, because I have, or still do, feel all ...
Babies
My sister-in-law had her baby this morning. The friend I had to sever ties with did too (our mutual friend let me know). My best friend is being induced tomorro...
Too Much
I’m sure it can seem sometimes, like I accomplish a lot. And maybe I do. But it definitely comes at a price, and sometimes that price is high. This past w...
My house is a shithole
It’s interesting how the prospect of renting out my house is making me look at it through new eyes. Sometimes I notice a charming detail here or there, bu...
Taking it easy
The procedure went well. At least I think it did. I was super out of it when my doctor debriefed me at the end. I’ve been trying really hard to take it ea...
The Procedure
Tomorrow I’m having a procedure done that is supposed to resolve the scar tissue that never healed properly after my first vaginal birth resulted in a thi...
Losing some of my (considerable) privilege
Privilege can manifest in many ways. Privilege is being able to afford childcare (sometimes literally every day!) Privilege is having family nearby, especially ...